Avelo
Avelo
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Unpacking Queer Loneliness
Am I lonely, or just alone? 🌈
www.patreon.com/dreamsounds
My new album "how to lose someone fast" is out now on Bandcamp: avelosongs.bandcamp.com/album/how-to-lose-someone-fast
And streaming services: open.spotify.com/intl-de/album/4qaG36UdM6yvL2cK9DrtrH?si=zFjT1bvgRqKoM7Z2Fi9jCQ
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The soundtrack for this video features piano recordings from my great-grandfather Bill Vuono as well as original pieces and songs of mine, with performances from Hans Bilger (bass), Alexander Dubovoy (piano), and Dexter Stanley-Tauvao (drums).
It also features a cover of "Will You Miss Me" by Rev. George Beebe and H.E. McAfee performed by Shyshark and a recording of Gerald Busby's "RUNES" as perfor...
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Finding A Trans Voice
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Do I sound trans? 🏳️‍⚧️ www.patreon.com/dreamsounds "more here than there" interpolates a line from Bruz Fletcher's song "Drunk With Love": "Someday she'll walk out my door/I guess that's what doors are for" A special thanks to JD Doyle for providing research, resources, and recordings regarding Billy Tipton. Please check out his work over at Queer Music Heritage! queermusicheritage.com/ The so...
How Berlin Became A Trans Utopia
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How Berlin Became A Trans Utopia
Our 34 Year Age Gap Problem
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Our 34 Year Age Gap Problem
how to lose someone fast
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how to lose someone fast
My Snow White Crisis
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My Snow White Crisis
I'm back (and a little different)
Просмотров 11 тыс.6 месяцев назад
I'm back (and a little different)
Queer Love & Howard Ashman | Dreamsounds
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Queer Love & Howard Ashman | Dreamsounds
The Death of High School Musical | Dreamsounds
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The Death of High School Musical | Dreamsounds
Why Germany Loves The Lion King | Dreamsounds
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Why Germany Loves The Lion King | Dreamsounds
How Part Of Your World Works | Dreamsounds
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How Part Of Your World Works | Dreamsounds
Why Disney Is Hosting Pride 🏳️‍🌈 | Dreamsounds
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Why Disney Is Hosting Pride 🏳️‍🌈 | Dreamsounds
The Homophobic Disney Conspiracy Theory | Dreamsounds
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The Homophobic Disney Conspiracy Theory | Dreamsounds
Why Disney Changed The Little Mermaid | Dreamsounds
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Why Disney Changed The Little Mermaid | Dreamsounds
Inside Germany's Donald Duck Society | Dreamsounds
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Inside Germany's Donald Duck Society | Dreamsounds
Proud Family Culture Wars | Dreamsounds
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Proud Family Culture Wars | Dreamsounds
The Musical That Changed Disney: Little Shop of Horrors
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The Musical That Changed Disney: Little Shop of Horrors
DuckTales True Crime | Dreamsounds
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DuckTales True Crime | Dreamsounds
Disney's Homophobic Musician | Dreamsounds
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Disney's Homophobic Musician | Dreamsounds
Disney's Last First Gay Character
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Disney's Last First Gay Character
Disney and Trans Kids | Dreamsounds
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Disney and Trans Kids | Dreamsounds
Ranking 250 Disney World Songs and questioning my life choices.
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Ranking 250 Disney World Songs and questioning my life choices.
High School Musical Madness | Dreamsounds
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High School Musical Madness | Dreamsounds
DISNEY DADS SMASH OR PASS
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DISNEY DADS SMASH OR PASS
Fake Evil Walt Disney | Dreamsounds
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Fake Evil Walt Disney | Dreamsounds
Ranking EVERY Disney song and losing my mind.
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Ranking EVERY Disney song and losing my mind.
Disney's Racist Ride | Dreamsounds
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Disney's Racist Ride | Dreamsounds
The Bisexual Disney Villain | Dreamsounds
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The Bisexual Disney Villain | Dreamsounds
Why be transgender?
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Why be transgender?
Disney's Gay Song Formula | Dreamsounds
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Disney's Gay Song Formula | Dreamsounds

Комментарии

  • @kyosanim9581
    @kyosanim9581 Час назад

    Oddly he came across as a poof in his video, hmm.

  • @miraclewade6112
    @miraclewade6112 22 часа назад

    "Pronoun mountain" 😂

  • @Krissy3D
    @Krissy3D День назад

    I love thisss!! Please make more content. I’ve never witnessed someone reciprocate exactly what I needed to hear. 🤍 Much love!

  • @FarookKMOON
    @FarookKMOON День назад

    The "deep voice" argument is so bad cause a number of cis hetero woman can have a deep voice and they do look very "normative" too so to me this is very transphobic

  • @missmonke8706
    @missmonke8706 День назад

    This is beautiful; thank you for sharing it. I've been putting off watching this since its release. I have my own conflicted feelings, doubts, and anxieties surrounding voice, and it's honestly scary (and exciting) for me to hear such dramatic change as I think things like, "But I can't do that, can I? Can I?". The changes in my voice have been very much a non-linear process as I've put effort towards it since 2020, but have never been able to apply it to my everyday life. Three years of that aren't exactly my fault (not a situation I was permitted to be out in), but even now that I've since moved away I just... I'm so vulnerable when I use a voice other than the one I created. It's like peeling away a suit of armor I've hidden away in to keep myself safe, but the joints have since rusted and I'm now stuck inside. Who am I if not the person people expect me to be?

  • @twiggledowntown3564
    @twiggledowntown3564 2 дня назад

    I'd really like to see the carnival one.

  • @Jisabox
    @Jisabox 3 дня назад

    don’t make me cry again

  • @idiot_rat
    @idiot_rat 4 дня назад

    This was such a beautifully made video. Obviously made with MUCH LOVE. Thank you for reminding me that loving people are out in the world, all over. Edit: and those songs were awfully (in a good way) lovely

  • @smallgoosey
    @smallgoosey 4 дня назад

    for the algorithm!!

  • @ignacioag
    @ignacioag 5 дней назад

    This is a beautiful video ❤

  • @user-rf1sw7kk3k
    @user-rf1sw7kk3k 6 дней назад

    oh, wow. i'm a student studying in berlin for the summer and leaving within the next week. i found your channel by chance about maybe a month ago? and it's been so interesting hearing you talk about berlin and being queer/trans there, especially as i am someone who is transmasc, and especially since the city i'm from is in america and doesn't get talked about that much, it's kinda surreal to see all these places and familiar scenery and hearing about all the queer history and culture from someone who's been living in the city for much longer than me. berlin is definitely such a beautiful city and i love hearing what other queer people think about it and have experienced here, especially since i'm not super into the party culture that gets pushed a lot-it's interesting to see what others think of it. there's something just so compelling about the way you use your words and integrate music into your video essays; i love the style. i don't usually write comments and this is kinda rambly, but i thought i wanted to say something after watching your videos while being in berlin. thanks for the video, and happy csd if you're going tomorrow ❤🌈

  • @SSNewberry
    @SSNewberry 6 дней назад

    I am sorry for the hurdles you face.

  • @NeutralGenius
    @NeutralGenius 6 дней назад

    thank you for bringing us gerald busby's story and his wisdom. i worry sometimes that, because of certain older people, that we're losing the knowledge that elders can give us. it's easy to say screw old people, what do they know, but there are so many out there that can offer wisdom i'm turning 32 this year, and have really only began living my life fully in the last four years. mortality and running out of time is something i worry a lot about, but hearing from gerald is a reminder i can slow down. getting old isn't a curse, it's a gift. i hope i'm able to inspire and guide the younger people i know, so they don't feel as lost and alone as i did when i was their age

    • @DreamsoundsVideo
      @DreamsoundsVideo 6 дней назад

      Thank you for the kindness. I do see a lot of divides online because of how people interpret their experiences, specifically with some gay people who are less accepting of trans and non-binary people. I think there are certain interpretations of queerness that can influence that viewpoint and I often see people say those differences in perspective are inherently a generational divide when I don't really think they are. There are many older LGBT people in my life who are very dear to me, Gerald being one of them, which is why I wanted to share his story and music in this video.

  • @KMartin-jf5kw
    @KMartin-jf5kw 6 дней назад

    There's nothing racist about Song Of The South. It was set after the civil war

  • @GrandDuchyOfOldenburgfanbase
    @GrandDuchyOfOldenburgfanbase 7 дней назад

    No they dont lol

  • @Ben-qq8ly
    @Ben-qq8ly 7 дней назад

    l love how you mix your music with the video essay, it really makes your points more emotionally moving

  • @Lux_Familiar
    @Lux_Familiar 7 дней назад

    Omg, I didn't know you lived in Germany! But your German is so good and your voice sounds really nice in German! (Saying this as a German)

  • @lars1588
    @lars1588 7 дней назад

    I'm at a loss for words...

  • @BassHeadsProduction
    @BassHeadsProduction 8 дней назад

    trans groomers have no problem with big age gap.. what a surprise!

    • @maximiliangonzalez3915
      @maximiliangonzalez3915 7 дней назад

      this video is about relationships between ADULTS who willingly enter into consenting relationships. what grooming are you seeing or hearing here?

  • @chaoswitch1974
    @chaoswitch1974 9 дней назад

    If he's gay, how is he attracted to you as a woman? Was he bi?

    • @DreamsoundsVideo
      @DreamsoundsVideo 9 дней назад

      He identified as a gay man when we met but through my transition realized that it was much more complicated for him - now he identifies as queer if people ask, but prefers to not label himself

  • @normietwiceremoved
    @normietwiceremoved 9 дней назад

    If you're autistic and edgy humour makes you laugh, it's easy to not know where the lines are. The f***tron video is clearly trying to be sarcasm. To me it was clearly a poor attempt of sarcasm.

  • @homoe7976
    @homoe7976 9 дней назад

    Yes, now dilate.

  • @eyeTHC
    @eyeTHC 9 дней назад

    Lmao you’re not fooling anyone

  • @JoeBidenIsAClown
    @JoeBidenIsAClown 9 дней назад

    🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @theagrome4592
    @theagrome4592 9 дней назад

    Thinking about the use of the neuter gender in the hospital that you relate. I had a friend who was a cis het American man who married a Lichtensteinerin and they had two daughters. When one of his daughters was getting baptized he took offense with the priest referring to her as “das Mädchen” even though that was proper German grammar. He argued with the priest until the priest said “die Mädchen.” He distanced himself from me after I came out and transitioned.

  • @unskilled822
    @unskilled822 9 дней назад

    lmao you're just salty he's successful yet dislikes your kind, how can i put it into words? ah yes, nobody is forced to like you and you cannot be loved by everyone its just natural thing, there's always someone with a different opinion so i dont know, a talented person doesnt have to be perfect and they're humans... there's no perfect human we all have flaws and different beliefs so dont force yours into others and villanize those who dont think the same

  • @stasacab
    @stasacab 9 дней назад

    4:08 I always go to Pride alone and I always leave Pride alone. I have been to 3 Prides this year. The most communal event ever. And it gets worse. Wait, if you become sick and you cannot get any help.

  • @secco1908
    @secco1908 10 дней назад

    Hedonistic nihilism is usually the main case why queer culture suffers a great deal. Party, clubbing, fcking. Many pathetic sex-ghouls, specially in Berlin. The male gay community is furthermore very deterministic and superficial: the rule is to be rich, white and sexy. If you're neither, you'll have to try harder or give up, i.e why many stay in the closet because the toxicity scares them. I'm a non-queer person. All I want is to love, care and learn from my crush because he is a great person who I care a great deal for ... he will never love me, but that's fine, because he already made me a better person. I hope people could stop judging me for "acting" straight or being too heteronormative ... I don't hate anyone and just want to live a peaceful and honest life.

  • @Alan-lv9rw
    @Alan-lv9rw 10 дней назад

    Yeesh.

  • @jakethatcher_
    @jakethatcher_ 10 дней назад

    absolutely amazing video

    • @DreamsoundsVideo
      @DreamsoundsVideo 10 дней назад

      thank you, jake! was recommended your queer escapism vid last week and enjoyed it

    • @jakethatcher_
      @jakethatcher_ 10 дней назад

      @@DreamsoundsVideo o- thank u so much I’m starstruck

  • @oliverking3901
    @oliverking3901 10 дней назад

    your movies are so beautiful and I luuurrrve the music interludes

  • @Fernard_Official
    @Fernard_Official 11 дней назад

    Sorry to say this, but I'm still listening to his song into those days

  • @catflowerlove735
    @catflowerlove735 11 дней назад

    No he’s not, he’s just the Reluctant Dragon.

  • @n0o0
    @n0o0 11 дней назад

    ooohhhhhh hunnnniiii

    • @n0o0
      @n0o0 11 дней назад

      nvm

  • @KMark2688
    @KMark2688 11 дней назад

    Y’all are attention starved af. This shit is grodie. 🤮

  • @tester-o1z
    @tester-o1z 11 дней назад

    Clown world.

  • @pepsimanvn
    @pepsimanvn 11 дней назад

    You have such a beautiful soul.

  • @johntrifunov9597
    @johntrifunov9597 11 дней назад

    Fun Fact When Alan Menken wanted to bring Beauty and the Beast to Broadway Belle played by the amazing Susan Egan she told me that she wanted to do the show so much because of Howard and Alans work on Little Shop she loved the music and the themes so that's what inspired to try out for Belle ofc she nails it. just a little tidbit she told me that The Musical was a driving factor for her to try out to belle then later Megra. She was an honored guest at our Colleges production of Little Shop a couple of years back she saw both versions of the show where we keep the Og ending for the night crowd and the sorta happy ending for the matinees such a fun show. Im co directing a production of Beauty and the Beast for the holiday season and when our belle audntioned she sang Mean Green Mother we sent her out 5 min i think the first thing i said I don't care i want her as belle. gaston beast idc she was so good

  • @Jayme-zr3ce
    @Jayme-zr3ce 11 дней назад

    You sound like the man you are. 🤡

  • @Jayme-zr3ce
    @Jayme-zr3ce 11 дней назад

    You're still a man. No man will ever be a woman. We are not costumes or feelings. XY chromosomes, sir.

    • @secco1908
      @secco1908 10 дней назад

      Believing in lies is what our entire civilisation is build on.. has been like this for thousands of years.

  • @Jayme-zr3ce
    @Jayme-zr3ce 11 дней назад

    You're still a fn man and always will be. Gross you married your grandpa. 😂🤮

  • @chocolatesugar4434
    @chocolatesugar4434 11 дней назад

    Kinda gives creating a rod for your own back

  • @runningtiger7624
    @runningtiger7624 12 дней назад

    Like. I feel that once you're an adult or 20 or whatever, you find someone far above the age gap. Go for it. As long as children/ minors aren't involved. All you boo. That's my opinion.

  • @DiegoBuitrago-om2zo
    @DiegoBuitrago-om2zo 12 дней назад

    Homie did an video to justify why is ok for her to date a guy who could be her freaking grandad. Go to therapy jesus christ.

  • @JeffSichoe
    @JeffSichoe 12 дней назад

    In the article you state 'I’ve always been attracted to men over twice my age' so John must be getting pretty worried as you must be hitting 40 soon (based on your pics) so you will soon find him unattractive and be stalking the retirement halls looking for another man whose age you find attractive.

  • @user-jk4bx6zy1g
    @user-jk4bx6zy1g 12 дней назад

    pathetic, seek help

  • @qwertyiuwg4uwtwthn
    @qwertyiuwg4uwtwthn 12 дней назад

    okay avelo get off the internet for a while

  • @lml656
    @lml656 12 дней назад

    Girl, the age gap alone is only little worrying, but your defensiveness is something else. Age does bring an inherent power imbalance; grow up. If you weren't groomed, don't worry. But many in your situation were, and you trying to deny that isn't helpful.

  • @AshFriday
    @AshFriday 12 дней назад

    Well now I'm crying

  • @Jompish
    @Jompish 12 дней назад

    Seek help